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Understanding When a Child with Autism and PDA Elopes or Uses Fantasy
When a child with autism and PDA elopes or uses fantasy, they're using coping mechanisms to manage overwhelming demands and anxiety. Learn how to support their need for autonomy while keeping them safe, with practical strategies for parents navigating these challenging behaviors while fostering connection and understanding.

Michelle Davis
5 days ago8 min read
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Understanding and Supporting Your Autistic and PDA Child Who Is Always Bored
Parenting an autistic and PDA child who is always bored presents unique challenges that go beyond typical childhood restlessness. Discover how anxiety, demand avoidance, and sensory needs contribute to expressions of boredom, and learn practical, parent-tested strategies to support your child's engagement while respecting their need for autonomy.

Michelle Davis
5 days ago8 min read
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When Your Child with PDA Always Has to Win, Be First, and Impulsively Behave
Parenting a child with PDA who always has to win, be first, and impulsively behave presents unique challenges. This article explores the anxiety and need for control behind these behaviors in children with Pathological Demand Avoidance and autism. Discover practical, compassionate strategies to help your child navigate these challenges while supporting their autonomy and emotional development.

Michelle Davis
Apr 137 min read
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PDA and a Strong Sense of Fairness and Justice
Parenting a child with PDA and autism who has an intense sense of fairness? You're not alone. Discover why justice matters so deeply to these children and how their autism hidden behind ADHD symptoms can manifest as passionate advocacy. Learn practical strategies to support their need for autonomy while helping them develop the flexibility to thrive in our sometimes unpredictable world.

Michelle Davis
Apr 127 min read
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Unique Ways Your Child with Autism and PDA May Show Love
Understanding the unique ways your child with autism and PDA may show love requires looking beyond traditional expressions of affection. From sharing special interests and maintaining proximity, to functional communication and problem-solving, these children express a deep connection in their own meaningful language. When we learn to recognize and appreciate these subtle expressions, we discover a profound bond that's simply communicated differently.

Michelle Davis
Apr 118 min read
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Rejection Sensitivity (RSD), PDA, and Autism: Understanding the Emotional Landscape of Our Children
Understanding rejection sensitivity (RSD) transforms how we parent children with autism and PDA, creating emotional safety for their unique needs.

Michelle Davis
Apr 108 min read
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When Emotions Run High: Understanding Extreme Embarrassment with Autism and PDA
Embarrassment in children with autism and PDA: practical strategies for parents to support emotional regulation and build resistance

Michelle Davis
Mar 298 min read
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Understanding the Physical Symptoms: Stomach Aches, Headaches, PDA, and Autism
Understanding the real connection between physical pain and emotional distress in children with PDA and autism.

Michelle Davis
Mar 257 min read
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Understanding Regression and PDA and Autism: A Parent's Perspective
Understanding regression in children with PDA/autism: practical parent-to-parent advice for navigating skill loss while honoring autonomy

Michelle Davis
Mar 248 min read
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Understanding AuDHD, Autism, ADHD, and PDA: A Parent's Guide to Supporting Neurodivergent Children
Navigating AuDHD, Autism, ADHD & PDA: A parent's guide to supporting your child's unique neurodivergent journey with compassion.

Michelle Davis
Mar 238 min read
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Reframing PDA: Understanding the Persistent Drive for Autonomy in Children with Autism
Reframing PDA as a "persistent drive for autonomy" transforms understanding and offers positive strategies for children with autism and PDA.

Michelle Davis
Mar 2210 min read
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Understanding Developmental Plateau with Autism and PDA: A Parent's Guide
Understanding developmental plateaus in autism: not setbacks but periods of invisible growth. Learn how to support your child through these

Michelle Davis
Mar 187 min read
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Understanding Stimming in Public for Children with PDA and Autism
Discover how to support your child's stimming in public while navigating PDA and autism with confidence, compassion and practical strategies

Michelle Davis
Mar 167 min read
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The Social Stigma of Autism vs. ADHD: What Parents Need to Know
ADHD is often more socially accepted than autism or PDA. Learn strategies to help your child thrive despite these unfair perceptions.

Michelle Davis
Mar 149 min read
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The Hidden Struggle: Masking Autism and PDA at School
Masking autism and PDA at school exhausts children and impacts mental health. Recognize the signs and support your child's authentic self.

Michelle Davis
Mar 139 min read
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Co-Regulation and "Enabling"
Co-regulation isn't enabling—it's essential. Learn how your presence helps your child with PDA & autism develop emotional regulation skills.

Michelle Davis
Mar 1210 min read
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Supporting Your Children When Your Grandchild Has PDA and Autism: A Grandparent's Guide
Grandparents: Learn how to truly support your adult children raising kids with PDA and autism through understanding, not judgment.

Michelle Davis
Mar 107 min read
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Unmasking the Hidden Challenge: Understanding Masking with Autism in Girls
Unmasking hidden struggles: How girls with autism and PDA exhaust themselves trying to fit in, and what parents can do to help them thrive.

Michelle Davis
Mar 87 min read
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When It All Becomes Too Much: Understanding Autistic Burnout and PDA
Learn to spot autistic burnout in PDA children & discover proven strategies from my parenting journey to help your child recover and thrive.

Michelle Davis
Mar 710 min read
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Obsession with People and PDA: Understanding Social Attachments in Pathological Demand Avoidance
When children with PDA and autism find someone who makes them feel safe, they don't just like that person—they are enthralled by them.

Michelle Davis
Mar 613 min read
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